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Relationships with her husband, relationships with her parents-in-law, relationships with work, careers, mom friends, etc ... If you do your best every day and live, your worries will never end. Experts give advice on such concerns. ■ Consultant profile [View image] Scary ... Mother-in-law who yells loudly to threaten. Even if I reject the call, I call with another number ... [I'm worried] Alpaca (28-year-old woman) Single, living alone. She is a medical clerk. ■ Trouble consultation She is 28 years old and lives alone and works as an office worker at a medical institution. Her parents' home is in a rural town, and she has been running a restaurant with her mother and father for about 15 years. Whenever I got back to her parents' house, I always thought it was a bit annoying to be asked by her mother, "Don't be sloppy when you come back, help the store." She was originally not good at serving customers, so she refused, saying that she was "tired" or "has a pain in her leg." However, when she returned home on New Year's Day this year, her middle school friends came to the store and became a petite alumni association, so she went out to eat and drink with everyone. I also decided to help with my work. While I was carrying and cleaning up not only my table but also other customers' meals and drinks, the regular uncles who were drinking at different seats called me "Let's drink together!". I was wondering if my parents would refuse it, and I was told, "Because it's a big deal, let me drink it together." I couldn't make an unpleasant face in front of the customer, so I decided to drink with her friends reluctantly while getting involved. One day, when she managed to get through that day and returned to her normal life, her mother said, "The person who drank with me the other day, I heard that he liked you and wanted to drink with me again, so I taught him on his cell phone." Then the uncle frequently receives phone calls and short emails asking her to drink. Of course, that person is married, but I've been ignoring them lately because I feel uncomfortable with emails that show my motives that I want to associate with. What was the intention of her mother giving her my cell phone number? From ancient times, her mother often gave me and her sister's contact information to people on the business phone who didn't know why they were coming home. "That's annoying and I'm scared of living alone, so stop it." But he said, "I didn't have any trouble. Think too much. It's your bad habit to think about anything bad." It will not be a discussion. He is a normal mother except that he gives out his phone number carelessly, and the parent-child relationship is good. However, I am troubled by the fact that I do not understand the importance of such privacy and personal information at all. How can I protect myself? ■ Personal information is legally protected It is unpleasant and worrisome for strangers to know your information. Even if you are a parent, you cannot give your child's personal information to others without permission. "I'm not in trouble," says her mother, but it's too late after a real problem. As a first step, it is important for your mother to know the correct knowledge about her personal information. The act of teaching a telephone call without the consent of the person is an illegal act that infringes on the right to privacy, so please be sure to tell that fact. If you still don't hear from the counselor's opinion, block unknown numbers and consider including a third party. Specifically, we go to the legal counseling of municipalities and consult about "methods for protecting personal information" and "dangers if not protected". Then, along with the fact that you went to the consultation, please tell your mother again the advice of a legal expert, such as "Personal information cannot be provided to others without the permission of the person". I'm afraid that you don't know who knows your personal information. I hope you can spend your time with peace of mind as soon as possible. ■ Respondent Profile Sachiko Kano Clinical Psychologist, Certified Public Psychologist, Labor and Social Security Attorney, Licensed Guide (English). After working in the media, she is familiar with a wide range of fields such as mental consultation and lectures for professionals such as lawyers and doctors, as well as family issues, poverty issues, and labor issues.
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