"Telephone Life Consultation" (Nippon Broadcasting, Monday -Friday 11: 00-) The highlight last week.This time, I picked up the Personality times on Tuesday, September 1st (Tuesday).
Consultation about what to do with "anger feelings" to mothers and brothers who have been abused.
The counselor is 54 years old (with divorce history).Her husband 54 years old.2 out of my son.Father 91 years old.Mother 92 years old.My brother 62 years old.
"I lived after being abused by my parents and my brother, and when I married my current husband, I was a very healthy person, so I couldn't understand."
"What kind of abuse have you received?"
He said that his father was a three -shift shift work, so he had a meal together when he had a father, but he could not eat at all.
"" Say right and see what my brother and I (mother) eat. "It continues from the evening to the morning. After that, I got a burn with the gas that boiled the water and burned it.There was such a thing on a daily basis. I couldn't take a bath. "
My mother said that my brother was very cute, but for the counselor, "I don't need two women in this house."He said he was saying, "Die."He must have been a mother who was jealous and hostile to her daughter.
By the way, did your father noticed this situation?Once, this happened.
"My father told my mother," Why are you so bully? "My mother was silent. My father beat my mother and went to drink as it was. He was a fingering father, reality.from"
Naturally, the father's jealousy is increasingly burning when the father protects the consultant halfway.
"When I went to elementary school, my mother was short, so when I was getting closer, my brother also participated. I was kicked by my brother and my mother."
In addition, he recorded the situation with a cassette tape, and after the assault, he was laughing while laughing.Mother and brother ... It's a little too dangerous!?
"I still wanted my mother to turn around, but I didn't turn around, so when I was 21, I took a 20 -year -old person and said" I'm going to get married "."
She married as if she were hitting her mother's attention, but divorced in three months.She seems to have met her husband now, but her husband seems to be a very good person.
"When I was told," I can say that it's unpleasant, "I couldn't understand if I thought," Well, there is such a way of life. "
I wonder if I was happy to marry my husband now, and I still can't escape from misfortune.From that time, her parents began to make money.
It was my husband who saved such a situation.
"I don't intend to complain about money, but I can't say it's unpleasant.
He refused the money from his parents, and was effectively expired, but his brother said to his relatives that he was hooked on fortune -telling (the counselor).
"I really became isolated and helped."
"Well, but it's the same as your husband, right?"
"Yeah, it will take care of me very much."
I think it was rather good that the relationship between parents, brothers, and relatives was cut off ...However, the counselor still cannot escape from misfortune.
"The nursing care of my parents has begun, and I took a form that I was nearby at home."
"Isn't it" taken "?"
"I didn't want to regret when my father died. I guess if I ignored it, I would like to suffer in agony."
Although it was finally able to enter the facility recently, it is said that the burden is greater than at home care.
Imai heard so far and returned, "I think it's better to go with your husband without turning back."
"I want to do that. I want to do ..."
"But it's pulled by the opposite person."
"I want to organize this emotion and live, not" anger emotions ". It's hard every day."
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