"Telephone Life Consultation" (Nippon Broadcasting, Monday-Friday 11:00-) Last week's highlights. This time, we picked up Michiko Imai's personality broadcast on September 10th (Thursday).
Consultation that married life is rejected by a wife of one and a half years after marriage.
The client is a 29-year-old man. Wife 30 years old.
"I'm talking about sexless with my wife."
It's been a year and a half since I married my wife and started living together. During that time, they have only been married three or four times.
"The longest time was about half a year, and even if I invited him, he refused because he said, 'I don't want to do it.'"
I met my wife two and a half years ago. We got to know each other through her dating app and proposed after five months of dating. We got married a year later. However, during the five months we were dating, we only had a relationship two or three times.
"Does your wife herself hate making love?"
"Yes, I hate it."
When the client asked why, it seems that he was told, "Because I don't like it" and "Because it hurts."
Currently, my wife's parents (living together in a two-family house) say, "I want to see my grandchildren." I won't do it anymore," he said.
"How was your honeymoon?"
"When I went on my honeymoon, I only did it once. It was 7 days and 6 nights." I didn't really want to, and we ended up having a big fight."
Since our honeymoon... That being said, the couple doesn't seem to be on bad terms.
"We're together all the time when we have days off, we talk a lot, and we laugh and have fun together....But when it comes to actions, I always get in a bad mood."
If the marriage relationship is rejected, some husbands may have the option of using a sex shop, etc., but the consulter says that he does not think about it.
"Even if I go (to a sex shop), I don't think I'll be satisfied. I want to be my wife. In this state, I'm living happily with my wife now, but in the back of my mind Then, I'm sure there must be a feeling of 'I want to do it' all the time, so I'm worried that I'll explode at some point... How should I keep my mind?"
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